Is there any way to make your lips smaller and your hair thinner? Please help!?

I am 13 in 7th grade and I HATE my hair & lips. I live in America but I'm adopted; I'm spanish/latin. I was born in Bogota, Colombia. Therefore I have much larger and fuller feautures than the girls at my school. My lips are REALLY plump. Like Angelina Jolie plump. They're not exactly huge in size/width, just really full. Boys & girls both have been making fun of me for it since 3rd grade and it's really annoying. If you know ANY way/product, etc. that could make them smaller (besides surgery) it would be really helpful. For my hair: It's SUPER thick and wavy, and I have TONS of hair. I don't even use any hair thickening products at all, it's naturally really thick. I thought that was a good thing before I came to middle school, but as soon as I got there almost every single girl had perfectly straight, thin hair. I tried straightening mine, but it just got damaged and it barely straightened at all because my hair is so thick. Is there any products or tricks to help me with that, besides getting layers?? Thank you!!